And ask are you a man if yes then keep going until you win
Take some martial arts classes challenge him
And if you do challenge him remember everything is a weapon of opportunity
Just be aggressive as hell. Grab what ever you can to hit them. Go for the temple or the testicles when hitting. Kick them in the shin or in the stomach and knock the wind out of them. Or just simply bite them. Some simple techniques. Lol, I have an older brother who is 18 and I'm 13 and I've gotten used to some hard pain. Hell, give yourself pain so you can build up resistance.
I would recommend a martial art that doesn't require much strength and physical ability like Aikido.
Jiu jitsu is a style that allows the smaller weaker person to win against a stronger bigger opponent. Check out some free trial classes in your area.
You need to practice, Join a martial art were you spar a lot. Its the quickest and best way.
"The pain is temporary" just remember this. So you have to first train and get physically strong; then beat the opponent!!
Well I'm 14, skinny like 120 pounds and always being taken advantage of cause I'm scared to fight. they call me a p*ssy and stuff cause I can't stand up for myself especially to older kids picking on me/ how can i change this?