I am a 17 year old girl who is doing MMA and during jiu jitsu I do not wear any head gear due to the fact it distracts and makes it more difficult for me. I have become really paranoid about cauliflower ear due to the fact I am a girl and that is not attractive on a female. Like I said I'm paranoid and my ear started to bother me and I'm not sure if I'm being paranoid but I can't tell if I'm beginning to get cauliflower ear..